Nearby, on your terms
See who's within 100–200 m only when you switch Visible on. It turns itself off when you leave.
MeantMee is dating for people who'd rather meet than message forever. Swipe like usual, or flip on Nearby to see who's within 200 meters, only when you choose to be seen.
18+ only · Free to join · No exact locations, ever
How Nearby works
Nearby is off until you turn it on, and it switches itself off when you leave. No one sees you unless you've said yes, right now.
Anywhere from 100 to 200 meters: the same coffee shop or the same block. People show up by distance band, never by exact location.
Tap someone to see their profile. Like or wave, and if it's mutual you're matched. Hide from anyone you'd rather not see, without them knowing.
Features
Built for real-world chemistry, with the privacy controls you'd design for yourself.
See who's within 100–200 m only when you switch Visible on. It turns itself off when you leave.
Rich profiles with prompts, interests and basics. A daily allowance keeps every like meaningful.
Typing indicators, read receipts you control, reactions and photos, all in real time.
A quick live selfie earns a blue check, so you know they look like their photos.
Tell someone they caught your eye. They'll see it before they swipe.
Distance bands, never coordinates. Hide from specific people. Pause anytime. Incognito with Plus.
Safety first
Real people review reports around the clock. Every safety tool is free, and none of them tell the other person you used them.
Visit the Safety CenterPhoto verification
Live selfie checks and a blue badge.
Report in two taps
From any profile, chat or the radar.
Block and hide
Block anyone. Hide from specific people on Nearby.
Share my date
Send who, where and when to a friend.
"Does this bother you?"
We flag likely-harassing messages for you.
TAKE IT DOWN
Intimate-image removal within 48 hours.
Real stories
Turned on Nearby at a Knicks game and matched with the guy two sections over. We've been together eight months.
Alexis, 29
Brooklyn, NY
The daily limit made me actually read profiles. Fewer matches, way better conversations.
Marcus, 32
Austin, TX
I love that it never shows exactly where I am. 'Under 50 m' is all anyone gets.
Priya, 26
Jersey City, NJ
Verified badges everywhere. It's the first app where I haven't been catfished.
Danielle, 34
Chicago, IL
We were both studying at the same library for weeks. Nearby finally introduced us.
Sam & Jo
Ann Arbor, MI
Share My Date is such a small thing, but my sister loves getting the details.
Rosa, 30
Los Angeles, CA
Matching at a coffee shop and then just... saying hi in person. Wild concept. Love it.
Ethan, 27
Seattle, WA
Testimonials from MeantMee members. Names shortened for privacy.
Pricing
Matching and messaging are always free. Upgrade for unlimited swipes and to see who already likes you.
Everything you need to meet someone.
$0
forever
More matches, less waiting.
$7.50 /mo
$89.99 billed yearly · auto-renews, cancel anytime
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FAQ
More in the Help Center.
Join free. Turn on Nearby when you're ready.