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Safety Center
Your safety comes before any match.
Tips from our Trust & Safety team, tools built into every part of MeantMee, and who to call if you need help.
In immediate danger? Call 911.
Then report the person to us from their profile or chat. Reports about offline behavior are prioritized.
Before & during
Dating safety tips
Video chat first
A quick call is the easiest way to confirm someone is who they say they are.
Meet in public
Choose busy, public places for the first few dates. Never meet at a home or a secluded spot.
Share your plans
Use Share My Date in any chat to send a friend who, where and when, plus a check-in reminder.
Control your ride
Get yourself to and from the date. Keep your phone charged and your exit plan ready.
Watch your drink
Keep your drink in sight and know your limits. Don't accept drinks you didn't see poured.
Never send money
No matter the story, never send money, gift cards or crypto to someone you met online. That's always a scam.
Keep chat on MeantMee
Our message safety tools only work in-app. Moving off-platform quickly can be a red flag.
Leave if it feels off
You never owe anyone your time. Unmatch, block and report whenever you need to.
Reporting
How to report someone
- 1
Open their profile or your chat
Tap the ⋯ menu, or the shield icon on the Nearby radar.
- 2
Choose Report
Pick a reason: fake profile or scam, inappropriate photos, harassment, underage, hate, spam or selling, offline behavior, intimate images, or something else.
- 3
Add details
Tell us what happened. You can attach a specific message. Everything is confidential; we never tell them who reported.
- 4
We take it from there
They're hidden from you immediately. A real person reviews every report, and we may warn, suspend or permanently ban.
Not a member, or can't access the app?
Email safety@meantmee.com with the profile name, city and what happened.
Intimate images shared without consent
Use our TAKE IT DOWN request form. We remove valid requests within 48 hours.
No background checks
MeantMee does not conduct criminal background checks on members. See our Dating Safety Disclosures.
US resources
Help is available 24/7
National Domestic Violence Hotline
24/7 support, call or text
800-799-7233 · text START to 88788Website
MeantMee is not affiliated with these organizations. Phone numbers are provided for convenience and were accurate at publication.
Date with confidence.
Every MeantMee safety tool is free, for everyone.